1/3 of People (but 2/3 of Seniors) Suffer From What?
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Did you know that 1 in 3 people (this includes children) have chronic pain and that 2 out of 3 seniors have chronic pain? Many of these people don’t look ill. They live with an invisible chronic illness.
Since it is invisible the comments they often receive are not encouraging and downright rude. Understanding for lack of participation gets sparse as the illness gets worse or lingers too long. Name-calling (like lazy, hypochondriac, drama-queen, faker, attention-seeker) adds to the condemnation a person with an invisible chronic illness feels.
“To many we appear to be flaky and/or unreliable when the truth is very different. People don’t understand when you tell them you’re in pain and they can’t see why.” CS
Dealing with pain that is unpredictable in its pain level, duration, and arrival is fatiguing and often leads to isolation. “Chronic pain is a horrible isolating pain. Regardless of the depth of your faith, pain takes over and consumes your every thought.” EK The name calling also contributes to the isolating behaviour.
So my challenge for you and me today is “Look Around.” If 1 out of 3 people have chronic pain, you know someone who deals with this issue. If I add up the number of people from work, school, church, family, neighbors and friends, that comes to about 133 people that I know who could be dealing with this!
But wait! About 30 of these people are in the senior population and so that adds 10 more to the number. I potentially know 143 people (men, women, teens and children) who deal with chronic pain and all its accompanying social, emotional and spiritual hurdles.
Let’s look around and see what we can do to help.
Do you have any suggestions or comments?
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Theresa | . at .
Thanks for posting about this. I am one of those invisible people. I’ve even had doctors tell me it’s all in my head (I’m glad they got a medical degree to figure out my migraines are in my head! LOL). The other thing I might add to this is that my neurologist told me that pain and depression share the same nerve pathways in the brain. Some people think you get depressed because you’re in pain. This may be true in some situations, but you can also have depression seemingly for no reason at all (quite frustrating!) because you have pain. When I am going to have a major migraine, I usually become severely depressed 1-3 days before. I think it’s good to be aware of this and to have the people around you know so that they can help you walk through this. The greatest comfort to me is knowing that my savior understands, sees and knows. Without Him it would be unbearable at times. I think the best advice I would give a friend of someone who has chronic pain is, don’t give up on your friend. Maybe 9 times out of 10 they have to say no, but that doesn’t mean they dont’ want to be involved or that they don’t care. Don’t give up on them… they need their friends!
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susan2009 | . at .
Thank you, Theresa, for your comments. I am sorry that life gets to be so tough at times. I hope that I am a friend who stays the course.
I am learning so much about this topic. I pray that the info soaks into my “behaviour” bones and that I act differntly because of it.
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