35 Reasons It IS Beneficial To Attend a Group

Support can come out of any group that meets regularly whether or not it is called a support group.

• Support groups can be purposeful and formal like a 12 step group, a Bible study class, a diabetes care group, or a weight watchers meeting.
• They can have an informal agenda like a group of folks who meet every Sunday morning before the second service at church, moms who meet at the park in the afternoons after school, or seniors who meet every Thursday morning for coffee.
• Bible study groups, informal groups, or topic-generated groups can turn into a support group.
• On Tuesday, April 13^th we started a new class for folks dealing with chronic pain/illness. In honor of that class I generated a list of potential benefits for attending that class.

Read on for 35 reasons it is beneficial to attend a support group.

1. To be around others who are experiencing a similar life experience
2. To hear others say what you are saying/thinking
3. Figuring out how you are feeling/thinking because of hearing about others’ thoughts/feelings
4. Relieve isolation
5. A place to give voice to your hopes, fears, losses
6. And for those hopes, fears and losses to be heard!
7. Place to be understood
8. Place to speak openly and honestly
9. Learn what to do to have a better, more peaceful lifestyle
10. Learn how to live with a disability, disease or new situation
11.  Studies show that people who attend healthy support groups tend to live longer.
12. They are also less depressed and more motivated to take care of themselves.
13. Finally they often feel less overwhelmed and more in control of the disease and/or pain.
14. Place to find and give inspiration, support, exhortation, hope, and information
15. Friendship with like-minded individuals
16. Feel helped and guided not attacked and belittled
17. Help in applying your faith to problems
18. Reminder to live one day at a time
19. Reminder that this is not all there is to life – Heaven is coming!
20. Reminder that you are more than your disease/pain/situation
21. To be around others who’ll understand the  fear, anger, resentment, grief, and /or helplessness you feel about your changing body/situation and that you are not “you” any more
22. Be around people who will not belittle you or take you too seriously because they have been, are, or will be where you are emotionally, physically, spiritually
23. Be around people who won’t coddle you
24. Place to learn effective self-care techniques
25. Model taking care of yourself
26. Learn how to love yourself
27. Share experiences, information, encouragement, support and hope
28. Help you understand yourself
29. Be with people who don’t see you as a problem to be solved
30. Be around others who didn’t know you “before” and so aren’t sad/grieving with you about that loss
31. Be  around others who show that “this” disease/pain/situation is livable
32. Be able to go on this journey with someone else
33. Be around those who have realistic expectations for you and your life
34. See what realistic expectations look like
35. Feel a sense of belonging

Your Turn. Which ones do you identify with? What has been left off the list? What makes you mad?

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