8 Tips for Finding a Prayer Partner
When I moved back to California my brother-in-law suggested I get into a prayer group. He said I’d need prayer support to get through the coming years well. I have been with my prayer partner for seven years now. The past years were full of divorce proceedings, completing my BA and MA, and parenting my adult children. I have benefitted from this relationship. My prayer partner has been a friend, a mentor, and a mighty prayer warrior.
I think that every Believer would benefit from having a prayer partner (or two). Below are eight tips for finding a prayer partner.
- Pray. Ask God for help in this process.
- Know what you want. Make a list of things you want in a prayer partner: stays on topic, loves the Lord, believes in the power of prayer, keeps confidences, etc.
- Read. Read A Dozen Rules for Prayer Partners, Part 1 and A Dozen Rules for Prayer Partners, Part 2 for ideas on how to structure your prayer partnership.
- Search. Look to see if something is already set up. I.e. If you’d like to pray for your children and their school, there might be a prayer group already in place.
- Observe. When it’s prayer time in your small group, church service, or impromptu prayer times, observe how others pray. Is there a person or two with whom you click? Note who brings you a feeling of safety. Who encourages, motivates, and builds your faith because of their prayers?
- Brainstorm. Set aside some time to brainstorm a list of possible people. At this point it doesn’t have to be realistic or possible. Then look at your names to see if these folks share any common traits.
- Practice. Look at your list and ask a few of your choices if they’d like to get together to pray for a onetime event. Look at this as a “date.” If it works out well, ask them if they’d like to commit to a prayer partnership with you.
- Ask. After you’ve prayed and done all the ground work, go ahead and ask. There might be a “no” answer. Don’t take it personally. Go on to the next person. I asked four women to pray about being a prayer partner with me. For three of them it wasn’t a good time or not something in which they were interested. But one said “yes.” And it has been a growing, powerful, exciting seven years.
Your Turn . . .
- Do you have a prayer partner? Why or why not?
- If yes, how did the partnership come about?
- Any tips to add?
- 5 Steps to iPray
- 8 Routes to Receiving Prayer at CNC
- A Dozen Rules for Prayer Partners, Part 1
- A Dozen Rules for Prayer Partners, Part 2
- iPRAY Guide For the Lost
- Know Why God Answers Prayer?
- Prayer Impacts Us in Five Ways